I’ve been really struggling lately with why premarital sex is so bad. Like I understand that the Bible states it’s so, but why is it so?
It's not bad as long as you get married. i It doesn't need to be a ceremony. Just say to one another that you are married, and it is so.
Doesn’t marriage need to be legally binding?
Is a break up a divorce?
Yes. And divorce is very bad.
- Matthew 19:
6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.”
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